feat(lifecycle/cli): run native commands with selected modules (#16)

Add native urfave/cli command adapters with explicit module selection,
signal-aware execution, reverse cleanup and documented exit-code mapping.
Include focused tests, an executable example and the accepted CLI ADR.

Closes #8

go.sum

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