upgrade to go 1.25 & port helpers

Removed ExprID and ExprEnum in favour of generics.

internal/dbxshared/dbxshared.go

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ import (
 // normalized for compatibility with the Jet QRM.
 func DestName(destTypeStruct any, path ...string) string {
 	v := reflect.ValueOf(destTypeStruct)
-	for v.Kind() == reflect.Ptr {
+	for v.Kind() == reflect.Pointer {
 		v = v.Elem()
 	}